Jul 13, 2009

The tale of the racist lecturers

Hehehe..what a good title i put today kan?? But this is what i'm going to rant in my blog today!!! Super gerammmmmmm nie!!!!!!!!!!
If you don't know this already, i'm currently taking a course in one of our local Uni where only Bumiputra can apply! I'm not going to mention the Uni name but, paham-paham la sendiri kan.. :)
So i had my seminar yesterday from 8.30am until 6.15am. First class, quite ok..the lecturer is the serious type but the way she taught us, not bad..very efficient..
Then 2nd class...OMG!!!! I was totally speechless when the lecturer had the guts to tell me in front of the whole class that i should change my religion and even tell the other students to pray that i will soon embrace their religion. Dangs!!! I'm not condemning the religion, but the lecturer should respect for whatever religion i decided to embrace!!!!
But what make me about to explode like a volcano is that within the 2 hours class, she keeps hinting about why i should change my religion and it will be great..and bla..bla..bla!! Now...now I have nothing against other religion. Nothing at all! For as long as i care, if we can live in peace and harmony, any religion will do, and that is what important. Even me and my husband decided not to change our religion because there is no point following the other party if we don't like it!
But in my case yesterday..Argggggggghhhhhhhhh..it was supposed to be a class and class only and no other 'iklan' while we were in the class...
Then..the 3rd class, lecturer is perfect!!! After a short intro, she went straight to the point what we should learn for that subject!
4th lecture..Though not as bad as 2nd Lecturer, but still annoying. I hate when people make their own assumption based on something (like my NAME). So what if my name is different?? When you see my name, you will be wondering too, but the only way to confirm your doubt is to ask and confirm with me first..ini tidak! Pandai-pandai buat assumption sendiri. Arghhhh!!! And i hate those who like to talk bad about others religions!!!!!! Damn!!!!!
All these while, my principle is to respect those who give me the knowledge i should know, but now..i'm not sure if i can give my 100% respect to the 2 people. Isn't the standard for everybody in Malaysia is the same?? Ish! ish!!!
I wish i can rant more about this matter, but as it one of a very senstive issue, i think i should shut my mouth up!! So...macam tu lah...! Now i realised why the people in my kampung (no matter what religion) can live under one roof. They respect each other religion no matter what it is. Here in Penisular Malaysia, it's totally different! Some is very racist and keep 'kutuking' other people race and religion. Hmmmmm..I'm not sure if it's me only, but seriously can we just live in peace please??? Why do we have to blame others religion and race for the bad things happened in our community???? *sigh*
Bah enough already lah..! I hope God will forgive me for this post..! and of course I hope i won't endure another episode of humiliation in my class. Seriously!!!!

33 comments:

AngeL BeaR said...

i wud ask her to STFU and get on with the class. Nasib ndak kena ma sa lah... =.=

ALTing said...

i totally agree with angel bear's methods... it's the same thing i would do... u paying their blardy salary not for sh*t like that... i'm an educationist as well, so i know..

Mimi said...

Eee.. How low can these people get? they think that by badmouthing other religions or race, will make theirs better? People like this should be ignored at best, you know just to return the favor... they are after all, ignorant.

Lab papa said...

Hey you know what I had the same kind of teacher like that before. I totally disagree on how the lecture treated you. I am so embarrassed and shamed on her. My suggestion is report to the administration.

FL Feinier said...

Hye KD Mama…

Waaa… mere by reading ur post, I already can feel the “temperature”… “Hot Inside”…. Very irritating me… How terrible… Sabar jalah ya KD Mama… hehe…

maslight said...

Oh waw, things you see in Local Uni. Only in local uni. I heard about this a lot. About how, people only hang with their old kinds. Which is sad. We don't do it that way here in Sabah. Which is gewd.

Their theme song, the live in harmony part needs to change. LOL itu bukan live in harmony tu, itu attempt to brainwash LOL omg LOL.

Oh yeah, talking about names, people owez thought I'm other religion. Apart from looking like chinese affects that judgement LOL. Tapi best jua bulih tipu urang, I could trick em with my age too weeeeeeeeeeeeeee. Sot. Sorry, baru bangun punya case.

Nick Phillips said...

Gee, that's why this country is going to the dogs la, it's cos of people like these.

I would have stood up and given her hell right there and then! And I would have even posted her name and the name of the Uni on my blog ... you know me la, like to complain :D

Connie said...

...i also pernah experienced that....and I told my lecturer that....my religion is the relationship between me and my God.....I will keep believe what I believe.....and she can proceed what she believes......and she said...I will be sinned forever....(I believe no religion is allowed to judge people are sinned or not....that's God job)....be happy for what we believe is true.....

elcynthia 엘신티아 said...

mmm, sterotype bah tu. bad people is bad people lah. doesnt anything to do with religion. no religion teaches bad things but how people manipulated the teachings can turn the table around. and sterotype thinking made "some" people think like there are bad religion. btw, this doesNOT happened at local Uni only. I know lah because I heard first hand ^^. ganbate ko T!

Nora said...

Hi KDM,

Hemm quite serious juga tu. I believe every religion in this world never practice "paksa-paksa". I agree with you when you said "our kampung" can live in one roof. Yes, I experience this a lot, because I'm in pennisular for quite long time already and my observation is, people here..memang suka membeza-beza. When I tell them that I'm not Malay..the quickly assume I'm not Muslim. See.. how narrow.. their thinking are.

In "our kampung" whatever religion and race you are.. you still a Sabahan and a human. betul tidak?.

Mell_f said...

Aiyoyo,jahatnya mulut tu orang. Suddenly u become the center of attraction but for wrong reason. Stidi ja ko, sd berlalu jg. haihz.

KaDusMama said...

Angel Bear ~ sia diam saja masa dalam kelas! Malas mau cakap..hehe

AL Ting ~ iya..sudah lah the studys fee mahal!! hahahha sabar jak lah..

Mimi ~ Yes! sia nda paham kenapa balik2 kena cakap masalah with their community dorang kasi kait with other religion..seriously!! sia nda paham langsung..

KaDusMama said...

Lab Papa ~ macam malas mau report2 pulak..just let it be lah..masuk telinga kanan..keluar telinga kiri..kasi besar ni isu pun macam no point juga..

FL Feinier ~ Iya..sabar saja lah..

Maslight ~ Masa sia d UPM dulu, macam sabahan & sarawakian jak p becampur sama orang lain..yang lain, paham2 lah!! HAHAH own gang..
Because of my name kan, sia pernah kena marah nda p kelas mengaji!! HAHAHAHA gila kan!

KaDusMama said...

Nick Phillips ~ Hmmmm...can't post the uni name..nanti I kena buang 'sekolah' HAHAHA...
But yeah..it was really irritating to have this kind of lecturer lah..

Connie ~ IYA!!!! same to me..kena cakap macam mana pun nda kan masuk syurga and my place will be with those orang2 yang berdosa!!! geez!!!! macam tu pun bulih ka? mau marah pun susah..diam2 jak lah..

Elcynthia ~ itu lah..mana ada agama ajar yang jahat kan? setakat nie sia nda jumpa lagi lah..kan bagus kalau suma orang boleh respect others religion???

KaDusMama said...

Nora ~ IYA!!!!! Betul tu...some buat judgement kan based on your race too..i don't like that at all..some races pun ada juga yang orang dia muslim kan??
In sabah, its very rare for people to question your religion?? paling2 pun tanya orang mana..belum lagi sia jumpa yang terus main bantai tanya my religion pulak..

Mell_f ~ sia black sheep di kelas!! hahaha the one and only! jadi kena lah habis2..but my coursemate ok..it's the lecturer yang bikin panas sikit...

Mummy Zuan said...

jahat wo tu lecturer........ dia x ikut kali apa pm kita cakap, the 1malaysian adeh....mungkin dia fanatik kali.btw,apa kos ko ambil di uni tu?

Nessa said...

Sia bingung ni.... apa punya kena mengena pasal nama seja mo kana tukar religion??

Dia punya way of thinking is just too shallow. I think you are more intelligent than that so called lecturer.

It's a double edged sword situation. Kalau ko marah2, nanti dia kasi fail ko kan. So, just keep cool. Orang mcm tu jangan ambil peduli. Just study and show them you can do it!

chegu carol said...

aiyaa....napa bah mcm ni pnya org tia pandai habis2 ni...ishhhh

agreed with nessa, u are more intelligent than her...she may have the IQ but she lacks the EQ...apa la...

Choc Mint Girl said...

Hehhh, dung*t juga tu lecturer!! Mungkin dia ni nda pernah keluar negeri bah ni, experience life, tinguk apa macam urang hidup di luar!! Kali kalo dia pigi sini, culture shock dia tu!! Ni la kalo ada 1 urang seja macam dia nda apa... Betul tu si Nessa cakap... ko cool seja ahh, nanti nda pasal2 dia kasi fail ko. S*al tul!!

FL Feinier said...

Huhu.. makin panas ni sya rasa.. gerammmmm tul... Mangkuk betul oh... Last time, sya pun pena alami ni.. ni sya punya agama kena kutuk abis2, dan smua tu kena hantar p email sya, bap yahoo group utk kursus U kan.. tp, sya terpaksa diam ja bap, kwn2 lain, yg seagama dgn yg pengutuk, baik jg.. so, tak pa la.. sya sabar ja la.. bap, sya tau, bukan salah agama dia, tapi salah hati dia yg begiuk.. bila jumpa kes yg sama mcm ni, arang yg ada di hati, automatik menyala mbara... adeh.. hehe..

caramel_larvone said...

Gosh, teruknya dat lecturer, can i throw shoes at her?? Napa lah ada org begitu dlm ni dunia, bgs kalo teda education, lecturer lagi tu. Isk, apa lah mau jd sma ni dunia ni skrg.
tia pa lah KadusMama, sabar ja, da ja yg kc tambah dosa da sendiri tu sana.
still geram owh

LonTugi said...

hi tt... i totally agree with u on this one... the condition here is not as friendly as the one in sabah... here you will be judge by the name u carry and sadly ur beliefs too... im not saying evryone is like tat but most of the time racism and sceptical thinking do exist.. sad oo... i even have colleagues that were suprised like mad when i told them im a catholic when my real name sounds not so christian... anyways, good luck in your future classes with those pinheads. :)

KaDusMama said...

Mummy Zuan ~ Iya!! Sia pun rasa begitu! Masa kelas patut mengajar, tapi tu lecturer preaching pulak!! hehehee
Sia punya course is kira-mengira..heheehee

Nessa ~ itu lah! sia pun nda paham..pasal nama jak pun dia pandai2 suruh orang tukar religion..apa pulak kan??
But i'm not going to do anything about it lah because the subject yang kana ajar tu lecturer is my main subject for the course...sabar jak lah! nda pasal2 dapat E..matai sia!!

Chegu carol ~ itu lah..heran kan masih ada orang macam tu..
Hope teda sudah lah dia cakap2 pasal sia lagi in my next class!

KaDusMama said...

Choc Mint Girl ~ HAHAHAH!! sabar ko cuz...memang bikin meradang kan! masa sia balik rumah hari tu, bising tul sia pasal tu! sakit hati sia p kelas macam tu..tapi lepas nie, sia buat cool jak lah..yang penting sia study jak apa yang patut! :)

FL Feinier ~ Ya..memang makin geram, tapi kalau ko baca buku and dengar tu lecturer cakap pasal agama orang, lagi lah ko sakit hati..agama lain kena blame pasal masalah2 yang ada di komuniti dorang bah..apa lah tu? Why not blame those people yang buat salah, kenapa mesti blame orang lain kan??

Caramel Larvone ~ uiii jangan baling kasut sama dia..hehehhe nanti nda berkat ilmu sia belajar dari dia..
For now...sabar saja lah..kasi besar ni isu pun macam no point juga..sabar saja la

KaDusMama said...

Lontugi ~ iya! You are right! Thou not all like that, some are really fanatic and have no qualm of guilt talking bad about other people race and religion.
Ya! Ya! Our names do sound weird kan?? Hahahaha that's why people is confused about it..

memeljoan said...

That's why la kan ty, I don't want to stay there too long...sa pun pernah kana suruh masuk agama dorang masa sa kerja di sana dulu...sa x boleh terima ooo org mcm tu. Itu isu sensitif bah tu...

Mauve Ocean Blue said...

KDMama, ini lah kebaikan dan kelebihan Sabahan... No matter what is your race and religion, kita masih boleh tinggal in one roof.

Tapi tu la bah...cabaran cari ilmu! Sabar ko peminat!..hahahahaha

Malaikatsesat@Bentara Sakti said...

Maybe coz that lecturer think that this is an Islamic country... he probably "misconception" tentang maksud "I---- is an official religion in this country".
Our Perlembagaan says about "kebebasan beragama"... you are free to have any religions, practicing your relegion, as long as you don't "makan jalan" to "I----" religion lah. Lebih kurang gitulah maksudnya...

Tapi tiada juga ayat yang menyatakan bahawa agama I---- itu boleh menyuruh penganut agama lain masuk I---- sesuka hati.

Be sabar ja lah KadusMama... and, keep your faith to your current religion... boleh bah kalau ko.

Mama Mia said...

Apa la pny lecturer tu, very the unprofessional butul! He/she has no rights bad-mouthing others religion. My name pun selalu juga mengundang keraguan urang jadi sia paham perasaan ko Ty.

Miss Sab said...

Teruk juga tu lecturer tu.. Tia tau macam mana buli dapat tu title.. Mungkin guna lesen kopi 'O' kot.. I think whatever our religion is, all religion taught us to be kind and good to others.. Maybe dia punya religion ajar dia the opposite..

Aza said...

You should sue the university for religious discrimination. Really.. someone needs to teach these people a lesson to not discriminate other people.

KaDusMama said...

MemelJoan ~ One shouldn't be told to embrace other people religion unwillingly bah kan..! If itu orang mau, pandai lah bah sendiri tu..

Mauve Ocean Blue ~ Itu lah...memang sini sama tempat kita nda sama langsung oh..sana kita nda nampak benda2 macam nie

Malaikatsesat ~ Our country is an Islamic country, but doesn't give the lecturer's right to tell other people to change the religion bah..macam rude bah begitu..mentang2 la sia saturang jak 'lain' di kelas..
But no worry, i'm ok already..suka hati apa tu lecturer mau cakap lah.. :)

KaDusMama said...

Mama Mia ~ iya..memang unprofessional sekali..! heran kan masih ada orang bepikiran macam tu..

Miss Sab ~ hehehehehe! nda tau pulak lesen kopi 'o' kah apa..but she is good in the subject lah..cuma kuat melencong masa mengajar.
But u are right, mana ada agama ajar orang buat jahat kan? so it's up to us to choose what religion we want to embrace..

Aza ~ Hehehehee...nanti i pegi sue, masuk ISA pulak..u know lah here is not like the US, sini nie pelik sikit!! :)