Jul 27, 2009

BIKIN PANASSSS!!!

No..this is kadusmama's blog, and not Nick Phillips bikin panas blog..! This is going to be a short but very angry post from me.....
So the tale of the racist + 'tooooooot' lecture continues and this time, she humiliated me even worse than on the first class i attended. While giving her lecture, she kept telling me (in front of the whole class) that i should change my religion. Many things she said, but i don't want to say anything and i just kept quiet when she made a rude remark about other religion. I'm going to write the exact things she said, and you guys tell me lah what you think about her..
She : *Call my name* Awak agama apa? (she already knew the answer and still, she asked me about it)
Me : Christian
She : Nama awak dah bunyi macam nama orang *****, sesuai sangat kamu masuk agama *****.
Me : *forced smile*
Instead of teaching, she wasted 40mins of our class (we only have 2 hours for 1 subject) by telling unnecessary things. She talked about why people should pray and get a blessing from god..and blaaaa..blaaaa..blaaa...Then she asked me this:
She : *call my name* Awak tau ke ape itu berdoa?
Me : Tau
She : Awak ader berdoa ker?
Me : Ada
She : Awak berdoa??? Awak ada Tuhan ker?
Damnnnnnn!!!!!!!!! What kind of lecturer asking her student like that?????? Seriously..!!!! She has issue she need to work on lah..she is looking down at other religion, and the worst is, i become her target to vent her frustration on whatever issues she has problem with.
All i want to do is, study in peace and get a good mark but that particular lecturer really driving me nuts lah..! I don't understand why she can't leave me in peace..why????????
After the class was over, i was about to go out when she called me out and say this :
She : Semoga awak cepat-cepat masuk *****
Me : *smile and walk away*
Arghhhhhhhhhhhhh...I've been complaining to my sis and hubby since yesterday, and all my sister can say is "Saiko bah lecturer ko tu"..
So you tell me lah...BIKIN PANASSSSSSS or not my lecturer????
What's wrong with the religion i'm embracing now??????
My religion teaches me to kill people ka???? NO!!!
My religion teaches me to throw my baby inside the dustbin??? NO!!
My religion teaches me to rob people???? NO!!
My religion teaches be rude to people???? NO!!
So what is wrong with it???????????? Nothing right????????? But why she still insists other religion is inferior?????? *shaking head* I really don't understand....bingung oh!!

66 comments:

AngeL BeaR said...

I think it's time for you to lodge a report on her to the campus management. or else she will keep on harassing you non stop. that bloody bitch should be more professional..tell her you are not going to any religious classes.

kalau sa tu...sa cakap trus "Elo, I dun pay my fee just to waste my time!"

Choc Mint Girl said...

Woiii!!! Sya GERAMSSS baca ni!!! Betul2 bikin panas oh!!! Pigi report, cuz, pigi, jan nda pigi. Kalo tu U nda mo ambil apa2 action, ko report direct sana Education Department atau Ministry of Education. Simpan evidence. Kesian ko kena buli2 camni, macamana mo concentrate study kan. Memang kes saiko la tu, ngam tu si B****g cakap.

Nessa said...

She is way out of line oredi. I think you shud make a formal complaint.

Anonymous said...

Warmest regards to u,

Living in a multi racial country simply means we habe to deal with all kinds of ppl including those overzealous ones like ur lecturers.

Being a Muslim myself, her approach certainly does not call for commendation since there is no force in religion, for you your religion and for mine my religion. I certainly can understand ur feelings but please do not hate Islam for her untoward behaviour.

KaDusMama said...

Angel Bear ~ Sad kan the lecturer macam tu! I'm not sure what to do yet..see lah macam mana..

Choc Mint Girl ~ Itu lah..sia pun geram berabis nie...

Nessa ~ Ya..will think about it..

Lab papa said...

kdmama,

I totally don't understand what is your lecturer was thinking. And I am ashamed of that. Kdmama, as i suggested previously, log an official report k.

KaDusMama said...

Anonymous ~ Hello to you..

Don't get me wrong..I never hate any other religions as i believe no religion teaches bad teaching to their followers.
If you read my previous post about how she treated me in my class, you will understand why i can't tolerate her insensitive attitude..
So you don't worry, i don't hate the religion, and i don't hate my lecturer either.
I just don't like the way she bad mouthing about other religion and harrassing me like that

KaDusMama said...

Lab Papa ~ Itu lah!! I thought i only have to endure that in the first lecture, but then i don't think she will ever stop.
Now, i have to weigh the consequences before i lodge any report..macam mana mau study macam nie! *sigh*

ms_bonong said...

haiyoo els... bahaya sudah tu..
get the hell out from that class.. confirm tia dapat markah bagus punya... or go complaining... ada hal ehwal pelajar ka?

reanaclaire said...

my goodness, and i only tot it happens in govt department only.. lately it was in the star paper, someone wrote in to complain about some lecturers who instilled wrong teachings to those civil servants who went on that particular course... no handphones were allowed in so that they cannot record or video taped what was taught inside the closed doors...
sigh.. so this really happens and to u too...

ALTing said...

i have no patience for people like that. i'd rather spit in her face rather than make an official complaint but lodging the complaint is the right thing to do la... then go spit in her face... hahahahah... susah lah if got people like this..

Islam is a good also bah but it's the people who misinterprets its teachings are the problem and unfortunately there are TOO MANY like those people in the world today...

Cath J said...

Jeez... ada sampai mcm tu kah???

Nick Phillips said...

I agree with AlTing, I'd spit in her face too, in fact I'd probably smack her face.

Every religion is not bad, it's people like these that give it a bad name!

Memang BIKIN PANAS!

caramel_larvone said...

seriously bikin panas tahap gaban!!!
i think she got sum issues, too bad. she's mental i think. she should go and seek further treatment, than wasting time like that.

chegu carol said...

apa bah subject dia ajar ni Ty smpai buli keluar ceramah agama dia ni?

buli tahan oh kau, masi buli kasi smile lagi sma dia...panas sia dingar dia ckp gitu sm ko oh.

please Ty...if this persist, log a complain. even better, kasi record itu conversation in class. *grrrr*

Wel^Beiolman said...

WAH.....please make a complaint..its best if you could make a copy of her lecture..bring a tape recorder and make a formal police complaint rather than edu complaint...that's really inhuman...reading this was my 2nd time...and I believe there will be next time...better make complaint now rather than letting this proud lec of shit making fun of the our god as if he's obsolute right and he knows the universe better than anyone...

elcynthia 엘신티아 said...

adui.. apa subjek juga kau ambil ni? hehehe.. even subjek PERBANDINGAN AGAMA sa dulu pun ndak 'PANAS' mcm ini. hehehe. but yalah, even if you lodge complain and later you need to attend her class, I'm quite sceptical on how "fair" she'll be on giving you marks. consider that she already started doing this kind of war on you kan? unless you have choice to attend other class la. take care!

FL Feinier said...

e, nda larat uda sya mo membebel.. yg pasti, sya panas betul oh baca ni post.. gerammmmm sgt2.. huhu..

tp, sabar ja la ar KadusMama.. Smoga TUHAN memberkati KadusMama & Family.. (^_^)

Connie said...

...hmmm...that case still happen oooo kan.....neway can i ask? are u in Penang???

pray ja la.....God will show u the way...in the same time...be strong.....u have to....


cheers......

sweetie~ said...

kurang ajar ni lecturer.....keke

kasi tau dia masuk ugama kau nda dpt makan babi ba bilang....sedap tu babi bilang....daging paling sedap di dunia....tinguk apa reaksi dia...hahaha

Hombidai said...

Hi all

amazing lecturer.. she is one contender for the 1Malaysia 'heroes'.. good for her

we all mourn for the passing of the talented Yasmin Ahmad.. but Allah loves her more I believe..

as for the amazing lecturer KDmama... the most 'powerful' thing to do IMHO is just return her GREAT MANNERS with a smile. don't fight back but also don't make a yourself look 'fool', if you know what i mean. don't react because she is 'inviting' you for a confrontation

it's not an easy thing to do but i have done this myself before to this kind of people and its very very effective

let her know that YOU are not like her. YOU are not racist. YOU are not someone who make fun of other religion... YOU ARE KDMAMA!! ha ha

she is just another plain b@da$$ human in the community

Nora said...

Hi KDM,

Inda habis-habis ini lecturer kan.. astaga..memalukan Islam saja dia n.Mana ada Islam paksa-paksa orang. I think she ada mental problem bah ni. I suggest you report sajalah. But make sure you have witnesess.

Good Luck.

♥ AnnieMing ♥ said...

owh.. s*alnya..

ya mengkali dia ada mental problem baini.. hish..

s*alnya itu lecturer!

KaDusMama said...

Ms_bonong ~ Hmmm if only i can do that..tu subject is my main subject bah..nda bulih skip class.. :(

Reanaclaire ~ I'm the only one who 'different' in my class..so i guess she thought it was ok to talk to me like that..

AL Ting ~ spit on her face?? Adeeee nanti sia masuk jail, susah lagi..
I agree with you, Islam is a good religion, but some of the followers become too obsess sampai nda peduli apa orang punya feeling..macam dia aja betul...

Mauve Ocean Blue said...

Mcm AnnieMing cakap.. mmg s**l punya lecturer!!! Buduhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh betul punya pemikiran! Urang2 jenis mcm ni la bulih kasi gaduh orang. Gila!

KaDusMama said...

Cath J ~ Jan ko..ada juga orang macam nie..inconsiderate and insensitive betul..

Nick Phillips ~ :D i don't think i'm able to smack anybody..nanti i masuk jail, susah pulak..

caramel Larvone ~ i think so too..otherwise she won't be sooooo obsess like that kan?

KaDusMama said...

Chegu carol ~ My main subject for my course!!! Arghhhh..tensionnyaaa..sudah lah susah tu subject, dapat pulak lecturer macam tu...susah hati sia sem nie..
Malas bah mau muka masam2..buat muka dekkk jak lah..
If she keep doing that, i will do something about it..

wel^beiolman ~ The subject she teaches us is our main subject for our course, nothing to do with religion..it's her 'extra' teaching yang bikin panas tu..

Nessa said...

KadusMama,

Sia sukung si Hombidai punya saranan!! hehehe

Sometimes reverse psychology works.

Nessa said...

Kalau ko melepasi dugaan ini, sia bagi ko 10,000 EC credits. Amacam, cukup ka? :D

Hombidai said...

all religions i believe teaches/ leads/make human to be good.. etc.. you all know that

only that human are sometimes over-zealous that they offend or hurt other people of other race and religion (even to their own race and religion too)

even people without any beliefs - atheist - do not want to simply offend or hurt people, IMHO

she is being over-zealous.. she has the mentality of "Hollier Than Thou..".. but is she??

be "smart" to "face" these kind of nincompoops KDMama..

and remember too that these are "trials" that "comes our way" for believing in what we believe.. everyone of us, and i mean everyone

cheers and be strong KDMama

KaDusMama said...

Elcynthia ~ Apa subject ko bilang? ACCOUNTING!!! nah apa kaitan sama religion pulak nie!
I'm not sure what she is going to do next, but i really dread to go to the next lecture oh! Sudah lah sakit hati..kena kasi malu lagi macam tu..*sigh*

FL Feinier ~ sabar sudah nie! dalam kelas pun sia nda cakap apa2..malas mau kasi jadi isu besar kan..

Connie ~ sad kan! All i want to do is study, but macam nie pulak..Mau sabar tapi nda tau berapa lama bulih sabar nie..
Oh by the way, sia tinggal di selangor.. :) not Penang..

KaDusMama said...

Sweetie ~ heheehee nda lah bah sia p cakap macam tu..but she is one insensitive human being lah..ntah apa lah dia pikir p cakap orang macam tu..

Hombidai ~ that's exactly what i did, returned her rude remarks with a smile..that's why dia gerigitan kali tu! LOL
For now, i'm letting out my frustration here, and i feel better already..at least i know our muslim friends don't share the same thinking like the lecturer did..

KaDusMama said...

Nora ~ itu lah!! nda habis2 tu lecturer harassing me in the class..ntah apa probs dia tu!
But like i said before, i'm not condemning the religion...as i believed all religion teaches us a good things..tu lecturer saja bah yang 'terover tu'..
If i'm to report on her, susah juga sebab the witnesses are all my coursemate..and i don't think they will say anything..

Annieming ~ Sia rasa dia telampau obsess bah tu...tul lah macam tu gaya..sia saja yang sakit jiwa..

Mauve Ocean Blue ~ Tu lah tu..bagus2 teda apa2..dia pulak kasi isu panas2 macam tu kan..nanti kalau sia p report, mesti sia juga kena tu kan..*sigh*

KaDusMama said...

Nessa ~ i'm thinking to diam2 jak bah nie..membebel di blog jak..tapi sia pandai tension bah everytime she talked about me converting my religion..sudah sia tapuk2 di pisuk2 nda mau kena nampak dia, balik2 juga nama sia saja kena cakap di kelas..
As for the 10k EC, hahahahahaha serious ka nie????? Sia nie ok jak..HAHAHAHA

Hombidai ~ Yep! I 100% agree with you..all religions want only the good and best for the followers..tia pernah pulak i heard they have to hurt other people kan?
I really want to thank you for your wonderful comments...somehow you make me feel soooooo good and better.. :)

Hombidai said...

ha ha.. great to know that you are cheering up.. you go girl..

zenoED said...

kadusmama! kalau sia la kan.. tell her nicely that ko inda mau jadi bahan contoh dan bahan rujukan di kelas di depan semua org untuk disuruh masuk certain religion and that the lecture should be conducted in full rspect of apa2 org punya beliefs. Of course, kalau dia banyak tanya pasal how do you pray, who is yr God etc etc, please invite her to learn more about this in a class that you can recommend.

Kalau in the next few lectures dia masih lagi buat perangai sama, please make a formal complaint to the mgmt. Sometimes keeping quiet is not the best solution; people like this need to be informed or guided or being told that whatever they think he/she is doing is not appropriate walaupun dia rasa its a good thing to do.

kopisanangan.

Mummy Zuan said...

adui ty,sia rasa tu lecturer salah masa dan ketika la..now everyone is open minded oredi bah..and sy rasa dia punya religion tu x pernah mo paksa orang lain utk ikut dia...rasa rasa dia jak yang over tu....dia masih x faham kali kita ni multi racial..berlainan religion and belief..apa la dia tu...patut mo kasi blajar dia sivik tu tau...

memeljoan said...

alala ty, klu sa jd ko, xda lagi sa mo senyum2...bukan dia paham senyuman ko tu. bagus ko ckp saja sama dia...jgn ckp psl tu lagi bolehkah?sa tidak berminat dan x akan berminat mo masuk agama ko sbb sa sdh percaya sama agama sa sendiri...gila punya org tu...

cindy-jane said...

I don't know what I'd do if I was in that situation. There's a high chance that I might spit at her like Alvin did.. lol.. or maybe I'd just give her a smile and pretended like I couldn't understand her language. Or maybe I'd report her. Hmm..

Whatever it is, sabar saja lah KadusMama. :D

Hombidai said...

If i have the power to do anything... I will make her "live and earn her daily bread" in the Land Below The Wind...

I wonder if she will still be herself again...

hehehe

NO, I didn't mean for her to get bashed up here but just to make her see how we live in harmony here without the thinking like hers which is shockingly insane...

hmm.. i wonder

okay... the 1Malaysia heroes awards goes to KDMama being such a wonderful person - a true Malaysian indeed. Kalau dia orang Marikh mungkin sudah dia pi laser itu urang hehehe

KaDusMama said...

Hombidai ~ mau sedih pun macam teda guna juga.. :) bagus kasi siap suma assignment yang ada..

Zenoed ~ Allooooo..lama nda nampak ko.. :)
Not that i don't want to tell her that right on her face, but i was trying to respect her for being my lecturer..
She never ask how i pray, only mocking as our god never exist..and that is really rude..
As i'm going to see her 3 more times after this, i guess i have to bear her rudeness lah..apa bulih buat..

Mummy Zuan ~ iya..she forgot that we live in a multiracial country and everybody supposed to be equal..she, however think highly of herself..mentang2 ada title 'hajjah'..
As long as she didn't point a gun on my head and forced me to change my religion, i guess i will to act 'bingung' in the class saja lah...hehehee

KaDusMama said...

MemelJoan ~ ntah..tidak pulak sia tepikir mau balas balik apa dia cakap..tu lah sia senyum and buat nda tau jak..malas sia mau layan..
If *touchwood* dia p cakap lagi pasal nie, sia memang akan terus kuar dari kelas lah..

Cindy ~ nanti kalau sia p spit dia, sia kena kasi masuk penjara pulak..kesian anak sia teda orang jaga..
So for the time being, sabar saja lah nie..

Hombidai ~ itu lah!! she should learn from us on how to live in harmony kan? At least kita di kampung bulih duduk satu rumah even though our religion is different. She should see how we never discriminate each other kan?

Lab papa said...

My personal opinion is that what she did to you was based on her sentiment and not based on our believe. Ask her, if our prophet see HER WAY to persuade other people to embrace Islam, would the prophet agree and happy with HER WAY.

I am very disappointed with the lecturer and pray that she would change for the better.

My MIL and her family have different believe than mind, but we respect each other without any problem occur.

LonTugi said...

tt, better lodge an official complaint le... that was a total direct harassment towards u. such behaviour shown by your bloody so called "lecturer" was totally unacceptable. questioning one's faith is just plain stupidity.

Mummy Zuan said...

ya...betul cakap c ig!!report!! (batu api bah)

Little Inbox said...

As a lecturer, she not even know how to respect her students. What la! No moral langsung how to qualify as a lecturer?

Aunty J said...

KadusMama, I totally understand your situation of trying not to be caught in the hot soup wt the lecturer since the subject she's teaching is your main subject and the reason for you taking this course. However, I believe that you need to lodge a formal report (with evidence as most likely you will not be able to get any witness voluntarily for the same reason as you have - dowan to get ur marks affected). If hp is not allowed in the class..perhaps you could bring ur voice recorder to be hidden in ur bag and do class recording. I certainly feel you do not deserve such treatment in your class especially by a so-called educated person (ur lecturer). Like some said, you dont need to go down to her standard by answering her. Just get some evidence that she is ill-treating you in class and get it reported to the management. Find out also if you could change your class/lecturer - get transfered from ur current class/ lecturer to another one. Perhaps also make sure in your letter to the management, you mention that the reporting of the case will in no way will affect your grading- fair treatment from lecturer(s).You're there to study and not to be humilated in front of the whole class! No one deserve that kind of treatment. Take care and keep on being strong.....

Aunty J said...

btw, if you really cant take it and can't see how you can cope with the classes/lecturers after reporting the matter... another option is to demand for refund of all payment done and get transferred to another private colleage....easier said than done huh..but its an option to consider especially if it really bothers u so much that could affect you emotionally and mentally...which in the end could affect your studies...just my 2 cents worth ;p

KaDusMama said...

Lab Papa ~ the one beautiful things we can see in our place, our people can live in harmony without even questioning each other religion or race.
I don't know what she is thinking, but i don't think she deserved my respect at all..

Lontugi ~ I know i should lodge a report, but it won't be as simple as that..don't forget we are the minority here. Lodging a complaint is most likely bring trouble to my side and not her.

Mummy zuan ~ hehehe! fire stone ah.. :)

KaDusMama said...

Little inbox ~ she think highly of herself and look down at other people with different religion..memang no moral langsung..

Aunty J ~ if only i can ask to be transfered from my class.. :)
As i'm doing a PJJ from our local uni, it's unlikely i can go to other uni for this course. The last time i checked, only this Uni offer this course and unfortunately, we only have one class for our batch..so there is no other option for me to choose other class.
As for the refund, i'm already 1/2 way through this semester and i don't think i can get my money back. If i stop..hmmm lagi rugi because i have fully paid my fees.
As i don't see her everyday and only once in 2 weeks, i will try not to be bothered so much by her..not sure how, but i'm sure God will help me through this.. :) Just believe in Him lah

emelda said...

i think you should just smile at her and tell her thank you for wasting your time and tell her you will make an official complaint report against her in campus..but before that bawa recorder so you can record everything she says...and she have no proof of saying she didnt say that to you...sial punya perempuan tu..kena babi flu baru dia tau.

emelda said...

BTW..is everything ok between you and nick? Or its just me reading it wrongly??

"No..this is kadusmama's blog, and not Nick Phillips bikin panas blog..!"

belleOFranau said...

damn!!ni minag bikin panas...sy rasa ko patut buat report di campus management o....or ko patut balas balik hujah2 dia....tampar dia sikit pakai kata2...

belleOFranau said...

apa kata...tiba2 ko cakap depan dia...'1 MALAYSIA!!!!..marilah kita merealisasikan matlamat PM dengan hormat menghormati sesama kaum..sesama agama...supaya ada perpaduan...sy hormat what relegion u embrace..so DO respect mine too'...with smile ^_^
adui...ty cam sy yang mau berada on ur shoes o...

Aunty J said...

ok maybe u can still do the recording and wait til you're done with ur course and file a formal complaint then ;p At the mean time...hang in there...hugs...

KaDusMama said...

Emelda ~ Hehehee..ganas kamu suma nie..but lepas sia pikir2 balik, sabar dulu lah..kalau ada hal lagi, baru lah sia p buat report (which unlikely kena layan pun).
And pasal nick and me..hahahaa we are ok bah..dia punya blog bah tu, hahahahaha u don't know he has other blog?? hehehe Go find his Bikin Panasssss blog..hahahahaa

Belle ~ kalau ko tingu muka dia kan..ko pun malas mau jawab atau cakap apa2..muka dia tu yang memang nda kan peduli apa ko cakap..jadi daripada sia meletup dalam kelas, diam2 jak lah..nanti kalau sia p report, banyak hal lagi mau urus..nanti lagi susah sia mau study..itu yang bikin sia bepikir dulu tu..
so sekarang, sabar saja lah dulu..

Puan Saiman said...

Sia rasa kan mimang tu lecturer ada wire putus kali di kepala tu.... and I agreed with Aunty J... and I agreed with Aunty J....hugs....

Mama Mia said...

Ty,this sem saja bah ko jumpa ni lecturer kan? Mcm si aunty J blg, record apa dia cakap then nanti ko buat la complaint...tp takut juga kan, kalu ko complain dia skrg, dia kasi fail ko pulak...

Nick Phillips said...

Hahaha ... no la Emelda, mana ada Kadusmama and me got problem one ... She managed to discover my secret other blog ... LOL!

I had a good laugh when I read your comment :D

AZA said...

You are very patient, kalau saya tu memang terbang sudah gigi tu lecturer. But you need to complain lah to the management like others said.. jangan biarkan nanti dia buat lagi to other people.

Anonymous said...

I feel sick when I read what u have to write. If this woman were to be in Australia she could be charged for being abusive, a racist and any names u liked to call her . U should report her to the education ministry and get her sacked fr. her job. Let her know that you people are not easy pushovers.I think someone sh. teach her a good lesson.

passersby said...

passby ur blog, saw ur topic..

hehe...mmg bikin panas that kind of lecturer... better focus study n grad happily... sampai d end of d world, pun gitu jaa script dia tu talking to the christians.. ngong bah dorang..

at least u got happy friends and family around you. dia satu orang sana, peduli dia... haha

KaDusMama said...

Pn Saiman ~ Hi there..thanx for dropping by..
Memang ada something wrong sama tu lecturer tu..kalau nda, tia juga gitu perangai dia kan?

Mama Mia ~ nda tau pulak..sia rasa sem nie jak..
Nanti hari minggu ni sia record lah conversation dia.. :)

Nick Phillips ~ I should post your "Bikin Panas" blog url here kan?? hahaha

KaDusMama said...

Aza ~ Need to get a proof first before i can complain on her..tunggu dan lihat nanti..

Anonymous ~ i need a proof before i make a report..so i need to get one first..
will take the necessary action once i have enough proof already..

Passerby ~ hello there..thanx for dropping by in my blog yang jarang kena update nie.. :)
Certain saja bah yang macam tu..obsess tul..terpaksa lah sabar saja nie..at least nda lah sakit hati.. :) walaupun sakit hati sebenarnyaaa

emelda said...

Nick..mana la sia tau ...cara kadus mama put it macam kamu ada perselisihan ba...LOL!! Sorry ar...sia masih binggung ba this from all the new stuff happening around me...LOL!!

Sorry ar kadusmama & nick... didnt mean anything ya

Ken.MrsGraig said...

Sy rasa harapan PM untuk kasi jaya tu 1Malaysia x la akan berjaya tu...klu begitu la sikap tu lecturer ko...terpaksala ko sabar2 since ko punya main subject lg sama dia kan...just pray for her supaya dia berubah jg... *-*